10 Reasons Why I Love Kim Jonghyun: 03. his love for the members (sometimes he acts as if he’s 3 years old and not a grown up man. and sometimes he’s just too dumb to function. but when onew cried so hard that he couldn’t continue his speech during mnet 20s choice awards, jonghyun wrapped a comforting arm around him and spoke on his behalf. when key cried during the encore performance of their concert, jonghyun was the first one to approach him and pat his back. when taemin cried on a radio program because he missed his brother so much, jonghyun was the first to ruffle his hair in an attempt to comfort him. when onew went too far with his sangtae and had actually hurt himself, jonghyun came running to him, rubbed his back, and told him to stop doing those body gags. simple acts like helping the other members with their clothing, feeding them, offering a hug or a pat on the back—these simple and sometimes subtle show of affection make me realize how much jonghyun loves and cares for the other four members. he’s not an immature kid all the time because he can be a caring hyung when he needs to be one. “He is always thinking of others silently and secretly, in a way that is not done openly and takes care of the people around him this way” - Onew; “He helps me a lot, tells me my mistakes, and teaches me a lot of things” - Key) happy birthday!